Separate Sensibly

An alternative approach to divorce - Don’t lose your money and your sanity.

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Separate Sensibly is the brainchild of two doctors who each went through horrific divorces. Sharing their experiences, they realized there is a better way, one the lawyers don’t want you to find out about.
A marriage certificate is a single piece of paper that is exploited by family lawyers because it essentially lets the law consider your marriage a business. Dissolving a business is difficult.

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Separate Sensibly is the brainchild of two doctors who each went through horrific divorces.
sharing their experiences, they realized there is a better way, one the lawyers don’t want you to find out about.
A marriage certificate is a single piece of paper that is exploited by family lawyers because it essentially lets the law consider your marriage a business.
Dissolving a business is difficult. The first thing a family lawyer does is finds out how much money you have. It is then easier to plan how long your divorce will take. It is not uncommon for divorces to last many years and for each party to be left with nothing, even if it means dissolving college funds.
No. When you pay a big retainer for a lawyer with a fancy office or from a billboard sign, it’s going to be expensive. How do you think the lawyer afforded the fancy office? Billboards can cost $10,000/month per billboard.
Where does this money come from?.... It comes from families like yours. The lawyers care more about providing for their own families than they do about yours. Helping you get divorced is their livelihood.
Paralegals have lower financial requirements than lawyers, but many of them are quite talented and experienced.

Similar to medicine where nurse practitioners and physician assistants are on the front lines working under the guidance or certification of a physician, Separate Sensibly advocates a similar model for family law.
As a legal matchmaking service, Separate Sensibly will connect you with excellent talent. All the paralegals share one goal, to help you divorce quickly, efficiently, and without collateral damage to the family.

All the professionals who register with us are best-kept-secrets who don’t charge an arm and a leg, and who don’t rely on huge billboards or fancy offices to draw clients.
Instead of $100,000 to $200,000, your divorce might only cost $10,000 to $20,000.
Instead of spending hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of your life, spending 10k-20k. Would you rather cross the stream at its origin when it’s 1 inch deep or a raging torrent later?

Ultimately, you’re going to compromise at some point anyway or the judge is going to make you so you might as well do it now. Divorce is unfortunate but doable, lawyers can definitely make the situation worse
This is up to you. Many separations are successful with both parties sharing a single professional who has both interests at heart.

If you feel that an amicable solution is not possible with this method, you can always proceed to have separate professionals.
Yes. Separate Sensibly will set up a zoom call for you and the professional to meet each other and ensure you’re a good fit.
Yes, after working out the logistics in the most amicable way, the agreement can still be reviewed by a lawyer who is collaborating with the paralegal before the paperwork is submitted to the judge for finalization.
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