Separate Sensibly is the brainchild of two doctors who each went through horrific divorces. Sharing their experiences, they realized there is a better way, one the lawyers don’t want you to find out about.
A marriage certificate is a single piece of paper that is exploited by family lawyers because it essentially lets the law consider your marriage a business. Dissolving a business is difficult.
The first thing a family lawyer does is finds out how much money you have. It is then easier to plan how long your divorce will take. It is not uncommon for divorces to last many years and for each party to be left with nothing, even if it means dissolving college funds.
You pay a big retainer for a lawyer with a fancy office or from a billboard sign. (How do you think the lawyer afforded the fancy office? How much do you think each billboard costs to rent?… That is your hard-earned money at work, your family resources).
Through using paralegals who are experienced in family law, Separate Sensibly will connect you with excellent talent. All the paralegals share one goal, to help you divorce quickly, efficiently, and without the collateral damage to the family.
Instead of spending hundreds of thousands of dollars and years of your life, spending 10k-20k. Would you rather cross the stream at its origin when it’s 1 inch deep or a raging torrent later? Ultimately, you’re going to compromise at some point anyway or the judge is going to make you so you might as well do it now. Divorce is unfortunate but doable, lawyers can definitely make the situation worse